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Articles: dating

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Oh, the Drama
Thursday, 2008 March 13 - 9:55 pm
Well, I'm up to Level 4 on Yahoo Answers now. I've answered 325 questions, in topics ranging from law to, uh, vaginal discharge. And you know, up until now, I never would have thought the phrase "vaginal discharge" would appear on this blog. Twice.

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A New Obsession
Sunday, 2008 February 10 - 7:23 pm
I've recently become totally hooked on Yahoo! Answers. If you're not familiar with this, it's a forum where people ask questions in a broad array of categories, and any idiot with a computer can post answers. Now, I am that idiot.

At first, I starting poking through the computer section, figuring I'd have useful knowledge to contribute there, but there were too many questions like "How do I put pictures on MySpace?" or "My Windows crashed, what do I do?" So I got bored with that.

But then I found the Singles and Dating section. Oh. My. God. It's a match made in heaven: thousands of lovelorn teens and young adults on one side, and my opinionated advice based on decades of dating experience on the other.

True, the vast majority of questions are pointless to answer. A lot of them say things like, "I like this boy in my class, he smiled at me once, do you think he likes me?" What do you say to THAT? "Probably not; it's just a tick."

But there are others. There are the people who are infatuated with their first loves, and don't know how to deal with life without them. There are the poor shy fellas who have never been on a date before, and don't know how to approach women. There are the people who are trying to figure out whether to stay with boyfriends or girlfriends who don't treat them well. These people, I can help... I've lived through all of that.

The best thing? I think these people can actually benefit from my advice. I feel like I can really make a difference. It's cool. Sometimes I think I should do this sort of thing for a living.
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Year of Drunken Bliss
Monday, 2007 December 31 - 11:50 am
Our one-year anniversary was yesterday.

The year has been, well, nothing short of the best year of my life. I've been going back recategorizing all my old blog posts, and there was a definite theme throughout 2005: me struggling to accept being happy as a single person, while desperately trying to find validation in the form of a girlfriend.

In the end, one led to the other.

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Dating Update: Two Years
Thursday, 2007 August 16 - 9:42 pm
I mean, Girlfriend Update. I mean, Wife Update.

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Dating Update: Nine Months
Thursday, 2006 May 18 - 2:23 am
Wow. Nine months. Wow.

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Marriage
Wednesday, 2006 March 15 - 10:07 am
So I didn't dream all that after all.

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Spot the Five Differences
Saturday, 2006 March 11 - 5:55 pm
A quiz!

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Connecting
Thursday, 2006 March 2 - 9:42 am
Oh, how wrong I was before.

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Girlfriend Update: Six Months
Saturday, 2006 February 18 - 2:21 pm
Wow, this is like a record for me.

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Valentine's Day
Tuesday, 2006 February 14 - 9:26 am
Somewhat better this time around.

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Girlfriend Update: Five Months
Wednesday, 2006 January 25 - 11:51 pm
Well, five months plus one week.

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Girlfriend Update: Four Months
Sunday, 2005 December 18 - 2:02 pm
Another milestone reached.

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Branding
Thursday, 2005 December 8 - 8:50 am
Beware the monkey.

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Melty
Thursday, 2005 November 17 - 1:21 am
And it just keeps on getting worse.

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Uh, What?
Thursday, 2005 November 3 - 2:20 am
Man, you can get anything on eBay these days.

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Posted by Ken in: commentarydating

Girlfriend Update: The L-Word
Wednesday, 2005 November 2 - 2:23 am
Ohhh, now it's REALLY hitting the fan.

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Girlfriend Update: An Unusual Problem
Thursday, 2005 October 20 - 12:00 am
And some words of advice to my younger self.

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New York New York
Tuesday, 2005 October 18 - 1:36 am
The trip with Amy, to visit Crouching Hamster in New York.

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Just Can't Turn It Off
Wednesday, 2005 October 5 - 12:16 am
Oops. Did some inadvertent flirting today.

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Girlfriend Update: All Is (Still) Well
Wednesday, 2005 September 28 - 6:55 am
Nothing to worry about after all.

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Girlfriend Update: A Test?
Sunday, 2005 September 25 - 11:28 pm
I think this falls under the category of "baggage": when you try to read too much into your S.O.'s actions, because you've been burned by similar things in the past.

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Girlfriend Update: The Tough Questions
Monday, 2005 September 19 - 10:33 pm
All my friends have been very supportive of my relationship with Amy. And while that's great, it means that no one is really asking me tough questions about what we've got. So I guess it's up to me to second-guess myself.

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Girlfriend Update: One Month
Saturday, 2005 September 17 - 9:39 am
And all's well.

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Girlfriend Update: A Question
Friday, 2005 September 16 - 8:06 am
I will draw upon the collective wisdom of the Internets for this one.

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Girlfriend Update: Amy Week #2
Monday, 2005 September 12 - 7:52 am
And other weekend goings-on.

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Posted by Ken in: datinglifesports

Dating Update: The Lessons
Friday, 2005 September 9 - 8:27 pm
This is mostly about me, and all the things I've learned about dating.

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Dating Update: Looking Back
Saturday, 2005 September 3 - 11:55 pm
Now that I'm out of "dating mode", I want to look back on the last six months.

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Girlfriend Update: Amy Week Recap
Friday, 2005 September 2 - 11:57 pm
We STILL just can't get enough.

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Girlfriend Update: A Madcap Weekend
Monday, 2005 August 29 - 7:29 pm
... and it's still not really over!

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Girlfriend Update: A Few Clues
Thursday, 2005 August 25 - 11:59 pm
Getting to know The WHB.

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Dating Update: She's Wearing My Ring
Wednesday, 2005 August 24 - 5:56 am
Last night The WHB and I both pulled our profiles down from the online dating site.

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Posted by Ken in: datinglife

Dating Update: I Just Can't Get Enough
Monday, 2005 August 22 - 10:08 pm
Okay, how long will it be before you get sick of hearing about The WHB?

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Dating Update: On the Third Day We Rested
Friday, 2005 August 19 - 12:00 am
Or, another page from the Dating Handbook.

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Dating Update: More On The WHB
Thursday, 2005 August 18 - 11:59 pm
Whoo, I hope I don't jinx this.

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Dating Update: Breaking All The Rules
Wednesday, 2005 August 17 - 11:56 pm
Hello my baby, hello my honey, hello my ragtime gal...

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Online Dating Etiquette
Tuesday, 2005 August 16 - 11:59 pm
The first steps.

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Proof That I May, In Fact, Be a Girl
Saturday, 2005 August 13 - 1:10 am
Or maybe not. You decide.

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More Stuff That I Need To Say
Wednesday, 2005 August 10 - 11:25 pm
Sorry, got a case of blogorrhea today. Here are some thoughts that didn't make it into the first round of articles.

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Posted by Ken in: commentarydatinglifetelevision

Dating Update: Well, That Was Short
Wednesday, 2005 August 3 - 11:38 pm
Next in line, please.

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Posted by Ken in: datinglife

Dating Update: VetGirl
Tuesday, 2005 August 2 - 11:59 pm
As if my dating life hadn't gotten complicated enough already...

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Posted by Ken in: datinglife

BlogHer Coverage 9: The End?
Monday, 2005 August 1 - 4:45 pm
This is about a post-conference party... and an incident where one word, left unspoken, changes everything.

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Posted by Ken in: bloggersdatinglife

Dating Update
Saturday, 2005 July 23 - 11:53 pm
Not that there's a whole lot going on, but it's better than writing about housework.

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Posted by Ken in: datinglife

Television: Hooking Up
Thursday, 2005 July 14 - 11:21 pm
ABC's newest reality TV show explores the world of Internet dating, from the perspective of single women in New York.

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Posted by Ken in: datingtelevision

True Dating Stories
Tuesday, 2005 July 12 - 11:54 pm
From 1996.

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Ain't Nothin' Gonna Break My Stride
Monday, 2005 July 11 - 10:48 pm
"Get busy living, or get busy dying." (I love that movie, Sonja.)

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Posted by Ken in: datinglifestyle

Good Times
Saturday, 2005 July 9 - 11:59 pm
Lots of yummy goodness today.

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Posted by Ken in: datinglifestyle

Today's Miscellany
Sunday, 2005 July 3 - 11:59 pm
Three mini-items today: a hockey update, a thought about SCOTUS, and a note about dating services.

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Posted by Ken in: datingpoliticssports

Evening Happenings
Thursday, 2005 June 30 - 10:13 pm
... Or, how not to pick up women.

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Posted by Ken in: datinglife

Internet Date #00013
Friday, 2005 June 24 - 1:05 am
More long-lost true stories of my Internet dating experiences. This one might be more funny-strange than funny ha-ha.

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Well, THAT Sucks
Thursday, 2005 June 23 - 11:58 pm
No NBA championship for the good guys this year. But today wasn't all bad.

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